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January 04, 2010
Sobering thoughts on the globalization of sexual freedom
As a longtime advocate of sexual freedom who grew up in the West, I have a natural tendency to see the world in Western terms, which means that I see sexual freedom in Western terms. I pretty much agree with the IASHS framework of "Basic Sexual Rights" (which Glenn Reynolds aptly described as a "Sexual Bill of Rights"), although as a libertarian I have serious problems with government involvement in including human sexuality. The right to do something should not translate into a right to do it at taxpayers' expense. So to that extent, I would take exception to interpreting the IASHS's point 8 to include taxpayer funding: 8. The recognition by society that every person, partnered or unpartnered, has the right to the pursuit of a satisfying consensual sociosexual life free from political, legal or religious interference and that there need to be mechanisms in society where the opportunities of sociosexual activities are available to the following: disabled persons; chronically ill persons; those incarcerated in prisons, hospitals or institutions; those disadvantaged because of age, lack of physical attractiveness, or lack of social skills; and the poor and the lonely.My worry is that "mechanisms in society" for "available opportunities" might be taken to mean providing sex workers for the incapacitated poor at taxpayers' expense. So, while I support the right to pursue a satisfying consensual sociosexual life, I see it as part of the pursuit of happiness. We all have a right to pursue happiness absent harm to others, but the right to pursue something does not mean the right to get it. Otherwise, we would all have the "right" to be wealthy, which is economically absurd. (And to say that the right to pursue getting laid means the right to actually get laid is sexually absurd.) But if you're so ugly, lonely, hopelessly nerdy, physically deformed that no one would want you in bed, sure, there can easily be a "mechanism in society" to remedy that. It's called the free market, but the trouble is that it's been criminalized. As a libertarian I wholeheartedly support decriminalizing it, but not subsidizing it. I realize that many in the West do not agree with me, including a number of readers of this blog. Yet regardless of these disagreements, the fact that in the West we can discuss these things in a more or less civilized manner is something I tend to take for granted as a United States citizen. It is easy for me to forget that in other parts of the world, merely advocating sexual freedom can get you killed. Just ask Seyran Ates, author of a new book titled "Islam Needs a Sexual Revolution." The mere title of the book has earned her death threats and forced her to go into hiding. Not a new experience for the author. To backtrack a bit, Ms. Ates was forced to abandon her legal career in Germany out of fear for her life. What bothers me more than that was to read that when she was attacked in public, the "good Germans" neaby did nothing to help her: While defending Muslim women for the last two decades, she's been insulted and threatened by her clients' husbands and relatives. She was always able to brush it off, until last year.It's refreshing to see that NPR reported this, as it's become a serious problem in Europe, and one which needs to be nipped in the bud before it becomes that way here. I admire this woman's feistiness, and I hardly need to point out that it takes a lot more bravery to write a book titled "Islam Needs a Sexual Revolution" than it would to write one titled "Christianity Needs a Sexual Revolution." What galls me is that in the West, publishers and bookstores would eat up the latter (while heaping praises on the author for "courage"), but the former would be shunned -- by cowardly publishers, and most likely be condemned for hurting the religious sensibilities of Muslims. When a tyrannical, murderously-sexist ideology is allowed to dictate terms in this way, it's time to ask what has happened to the West? And where is America the Brave? This woman has more balls than any of the craven cowards who would shun her, and as to why her book isn't listed for sale at Amazon, I am hoping that it's because the publishing details are still being worked out. But considering what happened at Yale, I fear the worst. Never mind that she has already pulled some punches. I was fascinated to read in her Der Spiegel interview, that the original title of "Islam Needs a Sexual Revolution" had been "I'll Fuck Whoever I Want." These were the last words of a Muslim girl murdered by her brother: "I'll fuck whoever I want" was the sentence Hatun Sürücü, a Turkish girl from Berlin, said to her brother before he murdered her, and that's how I came up with the idea to use it as my title.If there is such a thing as martyrdom, I'm wondering why there can't be martyrs for the cause of sexual freedom. Regarding sexuality, I found myself a bit startled by a remark Ms. Ates made in the interview contrasting the sexuality of Muhammad to the "asexuality" of Jesus: SPIEGEL: Muhammad had a dozen wives. Is he a role model?Whether Jesus was in fact "asexual" (and can anyone really be 100% sure?) might seem to be needlessly contentious, and possibly a minor point, but... I have long suspected that there is a certain tension over this Jesus-as-a-role-model business, and I suspect that many a red-blooded type man sees Jesus as, well... Seriously, I'd like to discuss this without being offensive, but I don't know how. While this post is not about iconography, it isn't my fault that for ages, innumerable pictures of Jesus show him looking like this: To be fair, there have been innumerable modern attempts to rework Jesus, such as this: And I suppose someone could portray Jesus with a bomb in his head, like this: No, it wouldn't draw death threats from angry Christians. But OTOH a Jesus with a bomb on his head would be considered so historically inaccurate that it would not be taken seriously. As to sexual freedom, one of my worries is that a number of angry and disgruntled men might make the mistake of seeing Islam as ultimately offering them more sexual freedom -- if we assume that Muhammad is the role model -- than they would Christianity, or contemporary Western mores that pay lip service to sexual freedom on the left while penalizing it heavily from both sides. (That last link was found in a long and thoughtful essay about misandry which Glenn linked the other day, but which paradoxically triggered troubling, unwanted, and downright paranoid thoughts on my part about Islamic sexuality.) I don't think I need to belabor the point that such male sexual "freedom" is not freedom at all, but conditioned upon submission to Islam, and is totally at the expense of women, who have zero sexual freedom, and who can actually be treated as criminals under Sharia law for being raped. If the world is in fact "global," I think that Western advocates of sexual freedom have a lot of work cut out for them. posted by Eric on 01.04.10 at 12:15 PM
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Thanks. I found it depressing, and frankly I hope that the case he makes is overstated. Some of the links went to an anonymous blogger whose rage -- directed at women and at men he cals "betas" -- I found almost beyond belief. I am not about to get into a detailed critique at this point, but it's clear that feminist excesses are producing a very ugly backlash. Eric Scheie · January 4, 2010 08:42 PM Indeed, we are told that Jesus was not someone who was very handsome or good-looking (there was nothing very special about his looks, at any rate). Plus, does that even look like any 1st century Jew? Jesus being asexual depends on what you mean by asexual - Jesus was probably tempted by sex as He was tempted in all other ways, although He remained celibate and chaste. [And after all, why should we doubt it when (a) there is no evidence otherwise and (b) there is evidence that this is not impossible?] But if you mean asexual as in otherworldly/no clue about sexuality then that's probably nonsense. But the point remains; while it is not in anybody's best interest to have multiple sexual partners (either serially or in parallel), neither should it be a criminal action either. Gregory · January 5, 2010 12:23 AM Apparently it doesn't occur to the author that everything Western is collapsing and decaying; whatever the future holds, Western values sexual or otherwise probably will not be among them. The job of most libertarians seems to be assuring others that the ride down can be really fun and enlightened. Brad · January 5, 2010 09:19 AM I wrote something on this a while back: And what are our tools? The Internet and Cell Phones. And you know what surprised me the most? Jewish pornography is rather popular in the Arab world. M. Simon · January 5, 2010 11:41 AM The job of most libertarians seems to be assuring others that the ride down can be really fun and enlightened. That is hilarious. And sad. Our Founding Fathers would be called in this age libertarians. I would rather be exposed to the inconveniences attending too much liberty than those attending too small a degree of it. Thomas Jefferson M. Simon · January 5, 2010 11:47 AM Here is a classical value.There are very,very few things a person can control in GREG newsom · January 5, 2010 10:41 PM I do have to point out that the reaction of the people in the courthouse may have been-in part at least- fear of winding up in jail for interfering, like in Britain: can't be causing trouble for the protected species, you know. And they've been training people for a long time to depend on the government to take care of everything; mustn't poach on the minions territory by acting on your own. One of the things that bothered me for years was that most pictorial representations of Jesus tend to show a skinny, ascetic guy who looks like would fall over in a strong wind. They guy was a carpenter in a time where that meant hand tools: axe and drawknife and hammer and chisel; he may have been lean, but damn! Firehand · January 10, 2010 10:58 AM Post a comment
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Eric,
That Misandry Article was huge and sweeping, and opened my eyes to a lot of things I suspected were happening in teh background, but now have the cover blown off of them.
It would be great if you could do a discussion of that article. It has many, many different points worthy of discussion.