the safety of mandatory decadence

Writing about the pervasiveness of what he calls "lawsuit culture," Philip K. Howard noted in passing the demise of the jungle gym:

Jungle gyms, diving boards, and seesaws seem relics of some past civilization.
They really do. I can't remember when I last saw a diving board (in the United States) or a seesaw. And until very recently, I had not seen a jungle gym of the sort I used to play on when I was a kid, but I spotted one in the yard of a former school and church in Ann Arbor, and I was lucky enough to have my camera handy.

junglegymfencedoff.jpg

Naturally, the owners of the property have fenced it off so children can't play with it. Most likely, this is because of insurance requirements, for an unfenced jungle gym would be considered an "attractive nuisance" by any tort lawyer for parents wanted to sue over a child's scraped knee or something. Accidents can happen, and we have to make everything accident proof. (Who cares whether children are allowed to develop into strong and healthy adults?) I'm surprised the thing still stands at all.

I hate to sound like a maudlin libertarian, but it really made me sad to see that fenced-off vestige of our healthier past. There's not a damned thing I can do to bring back real jungle gyms, or diving boards, seesaws, swimming holes, or even running on the playground, but I think it's a sign of our society's true decadence that these things are almost all gone.

And I do mean decadence, in the truest possible sense.

We're conditioned to think of decadence as when people have too much fun (and I can see the point), but the damage that results from having too much fun tends to be self-apparent, like when you engage in an excess of hedonism and end up rotting your brain or your body. But the damage that results when people are not allowed to have fun is more subtle -- and in my view more decadent. Not being allowed to have fun is like not being allowed to fail, or not being allowed to succeed. It's preemptive rot -- forcing people to rot without even giving them a free choice in the matter. The resulting paralysis is true decay, and that's what the word "decadence" means in its literal sense.

As I say this, I realize that decay is inevitable. It's part of life, and we all get there sooner or later. But if I'm going to rot away, it should be either as a result of my own natural decay, or because I have chosen to accelerate that decay for whatever reason. That choice is not for others to make, much less self-appointed "guardians" or "helpers" who believe in saving me from risks.

But I guess I must be a crackpot to prefer a past which allowed dangerous choices to a future in which nothing is allowed unless it is "safe."

UPDATE: My thanks to Glenn Reynolds for the link, and a warm welcome to all!

Comments appreciated, agree or disagree.

posted by Eric on 06.07.10 at 04:33 PM





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Both the swimming pools in my town have boards, and the pools are run by the city.
I agree with you 100%. At the rec. center they have classes for kids, instead of playing outside. So many things gone.

LYNNDH   ·  June 7, 2010 05:34 PM

They may have diving boards, but i doubt they are the ones with springs. those were fun to dive off of.

newrouter   ·  June 7, 2010 05:59 PM

I have to admit, I'm not sure where I stand on this.

Sure, we used to play on steel monkey bars over a concrete "playground", but I also went home lots of times with blood all over my hair and shirt after playing on the ones near my house.

It's tough balancing allowing kids to be kids with the odds of them being seriously hurt or dying.
Children are stupid. They will do the most stupid things that should result in death and when you ask why, you get, "I don't know".

On the one hand, you have people arguing that anything is worth keeping kids safe.

On the other hand, you have people arguing you can't keep kids safe unless you watch them 24/7/365/30.

I have sympathy for both, probably more for the second one because you can't protect kids until they're 30, it's impossible, but I've never had to go to a hospital with a child near death either.
I know I went to the hospital very often. The ER nurses knew me and my brother very well.

So I think we've gone too far, but I don't have kids.

Veeshir   ·  June 7, 2010 07:45 PM

You young whipper-snappers don't even know what a see-saw is! When we were kids see-saws looked like this

http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.ndlpcoop/ichicdn.n000074

and we liked it that way.

SteveBrooklineMA   ·  June 7, 2010 09:44 PM

newrouter - the problem with not letting kids take controlled risks when young is that they end up ignorantly taking risks that can't be recovered from when older. When I was a kid, I had this odd fear of the jungle gym in that I always visualized myself faling down the interior bouncing my head off the bars as I fell. I learned to take care and to face my fear. I could have waited until I was a drunken teenager climbing a transmission tower to get over it but I didn't.

Unfortunately, the "safe culture" usually isn't safe. Adults working far out to sea surrounded by an environment that will suck the life out of them given a chance were denied knives (by some shore weenie, no doubt). Some found themselves tied to a burning oil rig unable to cut free because some idiot thought something bad might happen if adults have knives.

http://towmasters.wordpress.com/2010/06/05/we-dont-need-no-stinking-knives/

JKB   ·  June 8, 2010 12:01 AM

Actually, the real funny thing is that after the banishment of the teeter-totter, it still is the standard street sighn symbol used to indicate a park. Just like the standard icon for saving a file is the obsolete floppy disc.

pablo panadero   ·  June 8, 2010 06:21 AM

The root of decadence is cadere, to fall.

rhhardin   ·  June 8, 2010 07:19 AM

Another lost relic is the merry-go-round. Every time we visit my parents, the first thing my kids want to do is go to an old weed infested park to play on the rickety merry-go-round. At least kids can still climb trees (if their parents let them)

Ag   ·  June 8, 2010 07:38 AM

Sad...

setnaffa   ·  June 8, 2010 08:11 AM

there's a drive-in up the road and you can see where the playground (over grass) used to be- swings, a slide, and jungle gym. 'Our insurance company made us get rid of it.'

Marty   ·  June 8, 2010 08:17 AM

Scarred up knees are evidence of a happy childhood.

Hucbald   ·  June 8, 2010 09:17 AM

I think the major problem, especially with the type of jungle gym you show, was kids puting their heads in between the bars and loosing their hold or footing.

edh   ·  June 8, 2010 09:43 AM

Real decadence is depending on government provided contraptions to break your bones. As a child, we would climb in a stand of pine trees and see who could cross from tree to tree and go the furthest, my cousin was the all time winner, but did not stop soon enough and ended up breaking his arm when he fell during a failed attempt to cross just one more time.

Growing up in the country gave us ample opportunity to kill or injure ourselves, from swimming in snake infested ponds and creeks, to hunting with rifles and shotguns from age 8 and up, to having "wars" with bottle rockets and other fireworks.

Farming and Ranching is a never ending series of minor and major injuries, from scraps and cuts, to mashed fingers and toes, to broken ribs, arms, and legs. by comparison, city life is decadent.

Joel Mackey   ·  June 8, 2010 09:44 AM

I miss diving boards terribly. As an amateur diving enthusiast, I remember testi ng out diving boards all across the conntry in my youth. In particular, I liked the 10-foot board at the hot springs in Colorado. Now, not a one to be found. How many potential Greg Louganis' will never learn how to dive because of the dearth of opportunity?

It's a shame, and it is our litiginous culture that is to blame.

West   ·  June 8, 2010 09:57 AM

I had an online discussion about freedom once, where the person I was arguing with stated that Americans are no less free now than they were 40 years ago. I noted that when I was 10, I could purchase, on my own and no questions asked, a knife that is now illegal for me to own as an adult, whereas my 10 year old cannot be allowed to wander far from home on his own, lest I lose the kids to child services for "neglect". The answer, though phrased differently, was fundamentally "I am unconcerned with your loss of freedoms; no freedoms that matter to me were lost." And thus we continue the slide.

The real question in my mind is whether we will go the way of Rome, and die as a culture without even noticing it until one of the invaders decides to burn the capitol, or whether we will somehow find the strength to turn out the ninnies, the nannies and the leeches and renew our culture.

Jeff Medcalf   ·  June 8, 2010 10:03 AM

That see-saw picture reminded me of my elementary days, when every now and then, just to keep it exciting, you'd quickly jump off at the bottom without warning to see if you could make the other guy slam his butt into the ground as gravity did its thing. Even if you got your feet out and ready in time it was still quite a jolt.

submandave   ·  June 8, 2010 10:04 AM

I was on my bike all day long every summer when I was a kid. Nobody owned a helmet or knee pads. Never a summer passed without scabs on the knees or elbows, and after the initial sting of mom-applied iodine, we never gave them a second thought. I understand safety, but I think we've gone overboard.

RebeccaH   ·  June 8, 2010 10:32 AM

Hmm,
Let's just say that we have love of God and love of seesaws where I live. Might be a correlation. And no, I'm not telling where I live. But we have plenty of woods to bury nannystaters in... :)

Other Eric   ·  June 8, 2010 10:51 AM

At Baker Heights Elementary in Baker, Louisiana, we called our hemispheric jungle gym the Eagle's Perch. It was stunning. The pinnacle of the playground.

I distinctly remember the year they removed a level from the structure to make it less-than-hemisperic and quite a bit lower to the ground. The Eagle's Perch frightened me in it's original half-domed glory with it's menacing six foot summit. I wanted to be able to climb it and sit on top like the brave kids. I longed for that courage. But after they reduced it to the four-foot "Eagle's Perch Lite," it lost its intrigue. Everybody could get on it and get to the top. But only a few had ever experienced the true Eagle's Perch, and I had not been one of them.

Now, I would have to seek out something else to climb and risk getting hurt to do it. The lure of the Perch was gone and with it, an opportunity for me to overcome an obstacle I knew I needed to overcome.

Take away people's opportunities to go forward into places they fear and they'll develop an unhealthy dependence on the very thing that keeps them safe.

Greg Geter   ·  June 8, 2010 11:32 AM

My creed, passed down by my grandfather: It's better to wear out than rust out. Generally speaking, today's youth are rusting out.

John B   ·  June 8, 2010 11:38 AM

Joined an older pool club this summer. I was shocked, shocked I tell you, to see a high dive. Hadn't seen one of those in decades.

Christy   ·  June 8, 2010 12:24 PM

Diving boards: You can have a diving board if you want one; however, you have to have a twelve-foot-deep pool. Most McMansion build-to-print outfits don't go more than five feet deep, because going down further requires special equipment and specialist workers and special permits, and all that gets expensive pretty fast.

It's not a safety thing; it's a cost thing.

DensityDuck   ·  June 8, 2010 12:32 PM

I find it very sad for today's kids that they'll never have the fun of riding a merrygoround, going up and down on a see-saw or even sliding down a real, tall slide. In their zealousness to make the world safe for children, adults have made the world boring and dull for kids. Is it any wonder that kids would rather stay indoors and play video games when there's nothing fun to do outside anymore?

Silver Fang   ·  June 8, 2010 12:33 PM

Jungle gyms hell, remember Giant Strides? Take a steel pole and set it in the ground vertically with an axle at the top. Fasten half-a-dozen steel chains to the axle, each with two 6" steel pipe handles at the end hanging low enough to be reached by kids. No padding on pole, chain, or handles. Then get two or three kids hanging on those handles and running an eliptical route, alternately running and flying high in the air while the unused chains and handles flail around them. As the InstaPundit says "What could possibly go wrong?"

I loved those things, lost a lot of blood to them, and never regretted a drop.

Swen Swenson   ·  June 8, 2010 10:25 PM

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